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Should I avoid share houses because they're creepy? Learn about the troubles, problems, and characteristics of share houses from real-life experiences!

Last Modified：2025.03.13

Share houses have the great advantage of being able to start a new life right away, as they are fully furnished and equipped with furniture and appliances while keeping rent low. Another attractive feature is that living together with other residents naturally encourages interaction. However, just as there are advantages, there are also disadvantages. There may be moments when you feel "uneasy" due to noise issues and the deterioration of hygiene in the common areas. In this article, we will explain the problems and issues based on actual experiences living in a share house, and introduce in detail the characteristics of share house life. If you are considering living in a share house, please refer to this article.

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Moments when living in a shared house feels uncomfortable

When you live in a share house, you share your life with other residents, and there are times when you feel uncomfortable. Here are some of those moments. By understanding the disadvantages and things to be aware of in a share house, you can find out whether living in a share house is right for you and get some hints on how to live a more comfortable life, so be sure to check it out.

Common spaces are dirty

In a share house, common spaces such as the kitchen, living room, toilet, and bathroom are shared with other residents. Even if you keep the space clean, it may become dirty if other residents use it. Therefore, cooperation from everyone is essential to keep the common spaces clean. Cleanliness of the water areas is especially important. For example,

  • Dishes left unwashed in the kitchen
  • The trash can is overflowing but left as it is
  • After using the toilet, the toilet is left as it is.
  • Things used in the kitchen have not been put away

If this situation continues, you may feel uncomfortable. If you feel that the common spaces are dirty during your visit, we recommend that you reconsider before moving in. In order to live comfortably in a clean environment, it is important to make sure that the common spaces are well-maintained.

The residents are not very friendly.

Share houses are home to people from a variety of backgrounds, including students, international students, and working adults. However, if the residents are not respectful, noise problems and interpersonal issues can occur, causing inconvenience to other residents. In fact, such problems often cause stress. Choosing a property is very important to ensure a comfortable life in a share house. Be sure to choose carefully, taking into consideration the manners and quality of communication of the residents. When touring the property in advance, we recommend checking the atmosphere of the other residents and the management situation.

Manners and rules are not being followed

Each share house has its own rules and manners. These are basic rules that all residents should follow, but unfortunately there are some properties where the rules and manners are not strictly followed. In order to avoid trouble and live comfortably, it is important to check with the management company or owner what rules there are before moving in. In addition, in human relationships in a share house, it is expected that you should at least greet people and keep a proper distance from them, but there are cases where people do not understand this. You will be able to live more comfortably if you can understand in advance what kind of people are living there. When you visit the property, we recommend that you check the atmosphere of the other residents and whether they are well managed.

Become embroiled in trouble with other tenants

Unlike rental properties, shared houses have multiple tenants living together. Therefore, it is not uncommon for problems to arise due to differences in ways of thinking and living environments. Furthermore, even if you are not the party in question, you may become embroiled in troubles caused by other tenants. If you do become embroiled in trouble, it is important to contact the owner or management company as soon as possible and report the situation. By not leaving the problem unattended and getting it dealt with early, you can prevent the trouble from becoming prolonged and continue living in peace of mind.

Reasons why people feel that living in a share house is not possible

Living in a shared house can sometimes be more difficult than you thought. Here we will introduce the reasons why people actually felt that living in a shared house was impossible. In order to find a lifestyle that suits you, it is important to understand the disadvantages and stresses of living in a shared house before moving in.

Noise Stress

In a share house, you will be living under the same roof with other residents, so you will inevitably hear noises and footsteps. Furthermore, multiple people may gather in the common areas and have fun, or watch TV until late at night, which can cause noise problems. For people who want a quiet environment or who are easily disturbed by noise, these sounds can be stressful and may be the reason for them to quit living in a share house.

There is no privacy for residents

Although there are private rooms in share houses, privacy is not as guaranteed as in rental properties. Therefore, you will always be aware of the presence of other residents. A minimum level of privacy can be maintained if all residents are conscious of it, but many people feel that this environment does not suit them, and they may find it difficult to continue living in a share house due to concerns about the lack of privacy.

Some people don't clean

In many share houses, cleaning of the common spaces is done by a rotation system, but if there are people who do not follow the rules and do not clean, the hygiene of the common spaces will deteriorate. Some properties have cleaning companies that clean the spaces regularly, but overall cleanliness still depends on the awareness of each individual resident. If some people do not clean, the common spaces will become dirty, and many people will feel stressed and give up on living in a share house. This becomes even more important in large share houses because there are many residents.


Tips for choosing a share house without making a mistake

Choosing a share house is very important for living comfortably. Here are some points to help you choose a share house without making a mistake. Use these points as a reference to find the ideal share house that suits you.

View the property

One of the most important things when choosing a share house is to make sure to view it beforehand. By actually looking at the property, you can check the location, surrounding facilities, plumbing, shared spaces, and other details that you can't see in photos or on websites. Make sure you see and understand the important aspects of starting your life with your own eyes before deciding on a share house property.

Check your house rules

Each share house has its own unique house rules. For example, some share houses have a curfew, some have a cleaning rotation system, and some prohibit non-residents from entering the house. If you are informed of these rules after moving in, it can be inconvenient, so it is important to check them carefully in advance. Understanding the house rules will help you avoid future problems.

Check the reputation of the share house

There are various reviews for each share house property. Of course, there are good and bad points, but we recommend checking the reputation on the Internet or on the company's website. However, it is most important not to take all the information at face value, but to actually see it with your own eyes. By doing your research before going to view the property, you will have more points to look at and will be able to find a share house that suits you better.

Knowing the Residents’ Attributes

A share house is a place where you live with other residents. For that reason, it's a good idea to find out basic information about the people living there, such as their age group and occupation, from the owner or management company in advance. If you choose a property with many residents whose values ​​and lifestyles match yours, you can live a more comfortable share house life. It's a good idea to get as much information as possible before moving in.

A disgusting shared house experience

Many people who have lived in shared houses report unexpected troubles and stress. Here are some of the "unpleasant" experiences they had in shared houses. By taking these experiences into consideration, you may be able to see what you should be careful of when choosing a shared house. Let's take a look at each one.

Lack of privacy

Some share houses have private rooms, but the reality is that it is difficult to ensure complete privacy. For example, some people have experienced other residents coming into their rooms without permission, or having too much interaction in the common areas, making it difficult to maintain privacy as they would like. Living together with others requires a minimum level of manners and respect, but a lack of such considerations can make it difficult to live comfortably.

Poor sanitary conditions

This is one of the reasons why many people feel that the sanitary environment is "unpleasant." In particular, the bathroom is the part of the shared space that is most likely to get dirty, and if someone uses it improperly, dirt will quickly accumulate. For example, dishes may be left out after meals, the toilet may be very dirty, and there may be a strong odor. Cleaning companies may come regularly, but in a shared house with many tenants, dirt will inevitably accumulate quickly. It is essential for each tenant to be conscious of keeping the place clean in order to keep living in a shared house comfortable.

Travel between residents

In a share house, you will be living together with other people, so it is inevitable that clashes will arise due to differences in opinions and values. To avoid such trouble, it is important to be considerate. For example, small considerations such as not making a lot of noise in the living room late at night, not turning up the volume on the TV too loud, and tidying up after using the kitchen will add up to create a comfortable environment for all residents. However, if some residents do not follow these rules, it can become a cause of trouble.

The comfort of a shared house depends greatly on the cooperation and good manners of the residents. It is important to remember that mutual consideration and following the rules are important for a communal life to run smoothly.

Are there any problems in a share house? Things to be careful of

In a share house, people who live together with strangers will inevitably have disagreements and problems from time to time. Although this is unavoidable, it is important to be conscious of how you live and avoid problems.

  • Noise issues: If you are bothered by noise, try to be considerate and try to stay during quiet times. Also, if the noise is too much, first calmly let the other person know, and if they don't improve, it's important to consult with the owner or management company.
  • Cleanliness issues in shared spaces: It is important for each person to take turns cleaning and to get into the habit of regularly cleaning up their dishes and trash. If someone does not follow the rules, reporting it to the management company is the first step towards resolving the issue.
  • Violation of privacy: It is important that everyone checks the rules before moving in and is aware of respecting privacy. If there is a problem, it is necessary to report it to the owner or management company and ask them to take appropriate action.
In the unlikely event that trouble does occur, seek advice early and take appropriate action. By observing basic manners and calmly dealing with any problems that arise, you can live a comfortable life in a share house.

Cross House supports comfortable share house living

Cross House handles many share house properties in Tokyo. If you are looking for a share house, just search for "Cross House" and you will easily find the property that is perfect for you. The biggest features of Cross House are the low initial costs and the excellent location of the property. Here are some of the benefits of using Cross House.


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If you don't like it, you can move to another property.

If you are living in a share house and feel that the property does not suit you, or that your place of work or school has changed, Cross House offers a service that allows you to move to another property free of charge. With a normal rental property, moving generally requires a new contract, rent, and moving expenses, but with Cross House you don't have to worry about that. Even if you feel that the property does not suit you or if you need to move, you can consult with us immediately and easily move to another property, which is a great source of peace of mind.

The property is clean and comfortable

Cross House properties have been highly rated by many residents as being clean, comfortable and easy to live in. Cleanliness is a very important point for a share house, and Cross House properties are well managed, providing a comfortable living environment. In addition, all properties are fully furnished and equipped with appliances, so you can start living there immediately after moving in. Another big attraction of share houses is the reduced initial costs.

For those considering a share house, Cross House is a very convenient and safe option. Enjoy your new life in a Cross House property, where you won't have to worry about moving and you'll have a comfortable living environment.

Choose from a wide variety of properties

Cross House has a wide variety of share house properties, managing around 800 properties. You can choose from a wide variety of share house properties to suit your lifestyle and needs. For example, we have a wide range of properties with large shared spaces that are perfect for people who want to enjoy socializing, as well as private room-type properties for people who value privacy. It's easy to find a property that matches any lifestyle, so you can find a place where you can live with peace of mind.

summary

In this article, we will explain the troubles and things to be careful about in a shared house, based on the moments when you feel "uneasy" in a shared house and your own experiences. Not all shared houses have poor hygiene or troubles between residents. In fact, there are many good shared houses.

The important thing is to thoroughly check the management company's website and the reputation of the property before moving in. Checking the photos and atmosphere of the property, as well as the reviews and actual situation of the residents, and finding a share house that suits you is the key to living comfortably. By choosing a property that suits your lifestyle and needs, you will be able to enjoy a more fulfilling share house life.

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